Monday, February 18, 2013

Mean it this Time!

So many times in life we keep repeating the same things over and over again until we don't even believe what we're saying. One thing is for sure if we don't take ourselves seriously we can't expect anyone else too. How many times are we going to continuously set ourselves back and miss so many moments of Now? What is it going to take to finally wake up and not allow it to happen any longer? How many people will continue to get hurt which includes yourself from saying it and going back on your word? At one time your word meant somenthing ,but your repeated pattern of the old mindset has now proven action that they can no longer believe or support you.

This time say it! and Mean it! Your words mean something to someone. Stop making promises that you know you have no intentions of keeping. You know the only reason you said it in the first place, you thought it was something they wanted to hear. No it's time to be honest with yourself, and realize if you don't, you will lose the people you love, great networking relationships and most importantly yourself.  Let's be real the only reason we keep doing the same old meaningless, unproductive things, we just don't want to let go. It's all based on a DECISION. You have a choice to say what you mean and mean what you say or you have a choice to lie about everything because you gave an answer you know in your heart the desire to hold onto it is greater than the actions others are expecting to see.

In the movie "Flight" actor Denzel Washington, did not change or make a choice to change until he admitted who, what ,where and why. He admitted he was an alcoholic, he was a liar, and he hurt so many people, but it was after the fact he lost someone he truly loved and was at the brink of almost lying to save self. He wasn't free in his mind and actions until he freed himself by telling the truth and accepting responsibility. Most times we don't want to be held accountable for our actions and we hope everything will get swept under the rug and act like it never happened. But there is more to life than just you. There are many that love you but your actions are speaking opposite to what you're saying. What will it take for your words to mean something? Will it take you losing eveything and everyone before you MEAN WHAT YOU SAY? In the movie Flight, everyone had covered up his actual problem ,his disEASE TO KEEP HIM AT EASE. He lost everyone who actually loved him,including himself. It's time to make a decision in this moment whether is health related, relationship based, financial, family, work etc... take responsibility for your own actions and realize life is not all about satisfying you. When you make a decision MEAN IT THIS TIME.

Ms. Sondra

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